Don’t say “I do” until he proves he’s ready. Many women come to my couples counseling practice asking for advice about their relationships, including questions about whether their partner has the qualities and characteristics needed to become a “successful husband.” This is clearly not a scientific question, as each individual has different tastes, values, priorities, […]
In 2018, “toxic” was Oxford Dictionary’s word of the year — a sign, no doubt, that the buzzword had officially entered our culture. But toxic personalities — and the dysfunctional relationships and situations they create — have been around forever. Recognizing them, managing them, and — when necessary — ending them are crucial life skills. […]
Discover the top indicators of a healthy relationship—and a long life. Psychiatrist George Vaillant said, “… the key to healthy aging is relationships, relationships, relationships.”1 He should know. For 32 years, Vaillant led one of the world’s longest studies of adult life, the Study of Adult Development, for Harvard Medical School. The study began in 1938 […]
As housing becomes more and more unaffordable, people unrelated to one another are joining forces to achieve the American dream. Millennials may not be having kids or getting married right now, but this generation is investing in homeownership — with a twist. They’re co-buying houses with friends. “We split everything three ways, so it’s cheaper to live,” said Amanda Scheider, […]
A Japanese couple in their 60s, with gray hair and a 43-year marriage under their belt, have amassed nearly 900k followers on Instagram by donning matching outfits every day. They posted their first photo in 2016, and since then, they have become an internet sensation. Their coordinated ensembles, often featuring vibrant plaid patterns and eye-catching primary colors, consistently capture the admiration of their growing audience. The […]
Everybody poops. Also, everybody deserves happiness. Therefore, from a logical standpoint, everybody deserves to be able to talk about poop with the person who makes them the most happy. However, that isn’t always the case — sometimes people are just too uptight about it when what they really need to do is unclench and just […]
Anthony Loffredo has taken the concept of body modifications to the extreme, undergoing a remarkable transformation to resemble an alien. His journey, known as the “Black Alien Project,” has sparked curiosity and admiration across the internet, particularly as images of his striking before-and-after changes have gone viral. A Unique Vision of Self-Expression For many, tattoos […]
Facial hair may indicate someone’s romantic goals and priorities, a study says Wondering if someone might make a good romantic partner? You may need to look no further than their facial hair. Men with beards aren’t necessarily out looking for a new partner — just keeping the one they have, according to a study published in the Archives […]
If your grandmothers took part in your upbringing, your childhood memories are most probably filled with joy and the feeling of safety and comfort. Few of us have ever thought there was any difference in the way paternal and maternal grandmothers influence their grandchildren. According to scientists, however, there is something special we get from our maternal grandmothers apart from their love and […]
When someone talks down to you, it can leave you feeling frustrated, small, and disrespected. Whether it’s in a work setting, during a casual conversation, or even from friends and family, condescension can hurt. But the way you respond to it can shift the power dynamic back in your favor. Reacting with confidence and composure […]
These habits might sneak their way into your day-to-day parenting Most people aren’t intentionally toxic. Rather, the way we were raised, the relationships we have, or our own temperament can allow bad habits to slip into the way we parent in a way that can negatively impact our longterm relationships with our kids. That’s one […]
The amazing bond between a mother and her children cannot be ignored. Strong bonds between mothers and children lead to better, stronger relationships that help develop the personality of the child. But the bond between a mother and her son is simply amazing. This article focuses on the mother-son relationship and the incredible aspects of […]