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Mayukh Saha
Mayukh Saha
October 4, 2024 ·  5 min read

9 Things That Shock People About Americans & America

As someone from the UK, observing the habits, customs, and cultural quirks of Americans has been an eye-opening experience. The United States is vast, with distinct regional differences, but some behaviors seem to transcend these boundaries. Whether it’s how they communicate or approach everyday life, certain aspects of American culture continue to shock and amaze people from outside the country. Here are nine such surprising traits I’ve observed about Americans and America.

1. The Patriotism is Unmatched

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One of the most noticeable things about Americans is their deep-rooted patriotism. From the moment they’re born, many Americans are taught to believe that their country is the greatest in the world. This unwavering belief is ingrained through education, media, and national traditions. Whether it’s through pledging allegiance to the flag every morning in school or having national holidays that celebrate their military, this sense of pride can feel overwhelming to outsiders. While many people love their countries, America’s all-consuming patriotism can come across as excessive or even intimidating.

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2. Healthcare Comes at a High Price

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Perhaps one of the most shocking revelations for people outside the U.S. is the cost of healthcare. In many countries, healthcare is seen as a basic right and is provided at little or no cost. In the United States, however, healthcare is a massive commercial industry. Without insurance, a simple trip to the doctor or a hospital stay can lead to crippling debt. Even those with insurance can find themselves facing exorbitant fees for basic services. Stories of people being charged to hold their newborns after delivery or being refused care due to a lack of funds are both heartbreaking and bewildering.

3. Security is a Major Concern

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For many outsiders, the security measures taken in the U.S. seem extreme. Whether it’s heavily locked hotel rooms or the need for home security systems, safety seems to be a top priority. The most puzzling part, however, is the public bathroom design, which often leaves large gaps around the door, providing little privacy. Additionally, many travelers to the U.S. express discomfort at the sight of armed security in public spaces, contributing to a general feeling of unease. It’s hard to shake the sensation that danger is always lurking, even in everyday environments.

4. The Complicated Tax System

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The U.S. tax system is notorious for its complexity. Unlike in many countries where taxes are automatically calculated, Americans are responsible for filing their own taxes, even though the government already knows how much they owe. One mistake can result in serious fines or audits, creating unnecessary stress. This system leaves many confused and frustrated, especially for those used to simpler, more transparent tax systems. The question remains: why doesn’t the government just tell you what you owe?

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5. Food That’s Overly Processed

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Food is another area where Americans stand out, and not always in a good way. In many parts of the world, fresh, whole foods are the norm, while in the U.S., heavily processed foods with high amounts of sugar and salt dominate the market. Many visitors complain that American food all tastes the same — overly sweet or salty, with little natural flavor. This reliance on preservatives and flavor enhancers means that accessing high-quality, nutrient-rich food can be costly. Even a simple meal like salmon often tastes nothing like it should, leaving visitors yearning for more natural, wholesome options.

6. Racism and Crime Create a Sense of Fear

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While America prides itself on being a melting pot of cultures, racism remains a pervasive issue. Rather than fostering unity, it often feels like the country is divided along racial lines, with deep-seated prejudices persisting. To add to this, the level of crime, particularly gun violence, is alarming to those visiting from countries with stricter firearm regulations. The fear of becoming a victim of random violence is a real concern, with even foreign governments warning their citizens about traveling to certain areas of the U.S.

7. The Rise of Narcissism

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A striking aspect of American culture is its focus on individualism. From childhood, Americans are encouraged to excel, stand out, and be the best at everything they do. This emphasis on personal achievement, while admirable in some respects, can also foster a sense of narcissism. The “American Dream” ideal promotes the idea that success is measured by individual accomplishments, often at the expense of collective well-being. This can create a culture where the “self” is celebrated above all else, leaving little room for humility or consideration of others.

8. Debate Culture is Puzzling

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Americans have a reputation for being outspoken, and this is no more evident than in their love for debating. From a young age, they are taught that it’s important to voice their opinions, sometimes forcefully. While healthy discussion can be a good thing, the American approach to debates often feels more like an argument than a productive conversation. Shouting matches are not uncommon, and the goal often seems to be winning the argument rather than reaching a compromise. This confrontational style can be off-putting to those from cultures where dialogue is more about listening and finding common ground.

9. A Unique Approach to Parenting

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One of the most shocking cultural differences for many foreigners is how American parents and children interact. In some cases, children openly challenge their parents, even swearing at them, with little repercussion. This level of defiance would be unacceptable in many cultures, where respect for elders is paramount. Yet, in the U.S., such behavior is sometimes seen as children expressing their independence. The boundary between parental authority and child autonomy can be blurry, leaving many outsiders confused about the dynamics of American family life.

America, with its vast cultural landscape, continues to intrigue and surprise those from other parts of the world. While some aspects are bewildering, others offer valuable insights into a nation that prides itself on freedom and individualism. Each of these characteristics paints a complex picture of a country that is both celebrated and criticized globally.

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